
You are in safe hands...
I'm Ted Lawlor, a qualified Somatic HypnoTherapist based in Bromley, South London.
Known by many as 'The Mental Fitness Trainer', my unique, science-backed approach creates real, lasting change for everyday high-performers - including Athletes and Founders.
Through Thought Energy Design® (a blend of hypnotherapy, breathwork, and subconscious reprogramming) I help people break through mental blocks, shift limiting beliefs, and step into the version of themselves they’ve always wanted to be. If you're ready to train your mind like your muscles, I’m here to guide you.
My areas of study range from the mind-body connection and breathwork, to unconscious mind therapy and somatic healing, allowing for a holistic approach to helping people.
As used by high-performers from...
Bespoke Performance Anxiety Intervention
If Only They Knew delivered targeted 1:1 mental fitness sessions to players at Holmesdale Keets FC, focused on reducing performance anxiety and improving composure during competitive fixtures.
Challenge
Players were experiencing elevated match-day anxiety, impacting decision-making, confidence and in-game execution.
Intervention
Structured somatic hypnotherapy sessions designed to regulate pre-performance stress responses and strengthen psychological stability under pressure.
Measured Result (Individual Case):
• Performance anxiety reduced from 3/5 (high) to 0/5
• Player reported increased calmness and match composure
Outcome
The intervention demonstrated the effectiveness of nervous system regulation in eliminating performance anxiety and restoring controlled, confident match presence.

Here's what we can help you with...

CONFIDENCE
Build an unshakable inner belief system to perform under pressure and bounce back from setbacks.

MOTIVATION & FOCUS
Enhance drive, goal clarity, and the ability to stay mentally locked in during training and competition.

ANXIETY & NERVES
Manage pre-event stress, calming the nervous system, and converting anxiety into controlled energy.
Try a guided meditation
Our guided meditation tapes leverage Thought Energy Design® technology to guide your brain & body into a state where you are more susceptible to hypnosis, allowing you to reset your nervous system & rewire your mind with ease.




Mental Fitness Training
Hypnotherapy for Athletes & High-performers
Mental Fitness is the process of training your mind like the body.
Leveraging my unique blend of Somatic Hypnotherapy methods, you will regulate your nervous system AND rewire your mind to reduce anxiety and remove mental blocks in order to reach your next level.
This is perfect for the everyday high-performer, from Athletes to Founders and even busy parents juggling multiple roles.

Book a session
Apply for your 1 hour remote HypnoTherapy session today.
Have questions? Email ted@ifonlytheyknew.co.uk or use our chat box.
Join a Mindset Workout
Want an immersive experience and to meet like-minded people?
Join a Mindset Workout for a unique HypnoBreathwork meditation to reset your nervous system and rewire your mind.
100% of past attendees have seen actual change in their emotional state, with a 83% increase in positive states and 68% improvement to negative states like anxiety and stress.






































































